Tonight Hubs and I had Date Night. For us, our date nights are a bit atypical. Since we have been for years and he’s now in the military even farther away, we have had to get pretty creative to feel close to each other while we are hundreds of miles apart.
One thing we enjoy is watching shows or movies together on Netflix or Hulu at the same time. I get comfy, put my earbuds in, get a drink, turn on my computer and have Hubs on the other end of the phone. It’s really nice!
The other type of “Date Night” we enjoy is the sexual type. You have to keep your partner interested, desired, and loved while you’re apart. There are a bunch of things you can do to keep that flame burning when you’re apart.
-Take and send some sexy selfies.
-If he’s busy, write up a nice erotic story and text or email it to him. Or even if he’s not busy!
-Download the Couple app.
-Set aside time where you two can sext, uninterrupted.
-Sext him while he’s busy so he knows you’re thinking of him.
-Set aside time for you to have phone sex.
-Let him hear you pleasing yourself on the other end of the phone, even if he can’t do anything at that time. He will definitely remember that for when he’s alone!
-If y’all are sending mail to each other (and it’s allowed), send a sexy mini care package. Include a pair of your panties, a letter with your lip prints and/or perfume, and maybe a Tenga egg to help him get himself off. Check them out… They come individually or in a pack of 6. I hear that they’re pretty good.
-Make a solo video for him and send it to him.
-Write him a letter to let him know you miss him and love him.
-Take an erotic dance class, and have a friend record you performing. Send it to your guy.
-Tell him how much you love him and can’t wait for him to come home DAILY. Never let him forget.
Many of these can also apply to things the guy can do for us, ladies! Don’t let distance put a strain on a relationship; keep it hot, fun, and do to fall out of love.
Some of the best advice I have ever received: NEVER stop dating your spouse.